Sure, heart-shaped boxes of candy are nice. Red roses are beautiful. That special Valentine’s Day prix fixe dinner will probably be delicious. But what’s really romantic is a gift that involves some thought and shows your partner you pay attention to what she really wants and enjoys. That’s why daisies are more romantic than roses if that’s what you brought your wife for your first date, and Thai takeout by candlelight at home can mean more than dinner at the most exclusive spot in town if it reminds you of your fabulous honeymoon.
Valentine's Day has always been about sweet indulgences, expensive dinners and buying gifts. But if you and your man are tired of the same old traditions, give him an experience both of you will enjoy.
Most of us would agree with George Eliot’s words, “I like not only to be loved, but also to be told I am loved.”
Valentine’s Day is the occasion when you can experience both.Below are some of the ideas for valentines Day
On small pieces of paper, write down every kind of kiss that you can think of (examples: passionate, on the cheek, etc.). Then fill an inexpensive red felt bag with your “kisses” and give it to your spouse. Ask your spouse to pull several pieces of paper from the felt bag, and then give your sweetheart whatever kind of kiss is described.
If you have a fireplace in your home, light it up, grab some wine and make some s'mores. Treat your man to a night of cuddling and staying in. The best part? You'll both enjoy some peace and quiet.
Give your wife a dozen roses. On each stem attach a note for a future date—to do something that she would enjoy.
If possible, go on a date with your spouse to a restaurant that you enjoyed when you first met. After you order your meal, take some time to write down favorite memories from the past year. Then share your lists.
Have 11 roses delivered to your wife, and then give her a 12th yourself while reading her a love poem.
This may take some time to plan, but send your boyfriend or husband on a scavenger hunt either in your home or around the city. Write out clues to the next location, give him riddles or leave questions only he would know the answer to. The end result? Book a spot at his favourite restaurant or cook him a meal at home.
Do you remember your first date? Was it awkward or was it smooth?If you're all about getting nostalgic, try recreating your first date (and if you're up for it, recreate the same outfit for extra points). You'll both realize how far into the relationship you've come and get all mushy about old memories.
Privacy and weather permitting, watch a romantic movie on your deck or patio.
If you are separated across the miles, send a care package filled with things that are red.
Wives, show up at your husband’s office before lunch. Call him from the parking lot and tell him you are going to take him for a lunch rendezvous and that you will be waiting for him whenever he can take a break. Wear a nice outfit and tell him you have something sexy on underneath for when he gets home. Take him to a nice place for lunch and back to the office. Give him some great kisses telling him how glad you are to be married to him, and tell him you will be waiting for him when he gets home.
Hear us out. Remember when you were a kid and used to get so excited about building and hiding in your own sanctuary? Your kids may think their parents have lost it, but when everyone is sleeping, build a fort in your bedroom or living room. This is the perfect time to watch a movie, have sex or have that much-needed pillow talk session.
If playing chess gets you in the mood, do it. Hit up a local adult store and plan out a game night for the two of you. It could be sexy truth or dare, board games or download sex apps on your tablet or phone to spice things up.
If possible, send a card postmarked in a town that has a romantic name such as Loveland, Colorado; Valentine, Texas; or Romance, Arkansas
After your spouse goes to bed, tape notes to his car’s steering wheel with reasons that you love him, or decorate the bathroom mirror with lipstick kisses or Valentine’s window clings.
Stay in bed all night. We mean it. If you can, stay in your pjs, grab some breakfast and watch your favourite movies or start a TV marathon...in bed, all day. Both of you will not only feel relaxed, but when was the last time the man in your life took a break?
Have fun on February 14, and remember: Love is not meant to be given and received just on Valentine’s Day. Instead, it’s to be practiced every single day of the entire year.
